Hello, Jane, I am a non-custodial mother who lives in Brisbane. I am sane, with my head squarely on my shoulders. I too have been looking for the Australian version of non-custodial mothers and would definitely be up for a chat. I am about to give a paper at a conference soon actually on this issue. I hope that this gets to you. My phone contact is 0423 106 883 Regards, Cathy.